Ready for an intentional evening?
Apply once and know about all upcoming events in your city
Investment
Every event is curated — this isn’t a $20 bar meetup where anyone can wander in.
Everyone applies, is vetted, and invests real money to be here so the room is
full of serious, like-minded singles.
Men
(Ages 34-48)
Single event ticket · $125
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Women
(Ages 26-40)
Single event ticket · $70
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Why our events cost more
We’re not trying to be the cheapest option. Your ticket price funds the screening of every
guest in the room, and filters out the low-investment, low-effort approach to dating
that makes other events feel like a waste of time
We look for men who...
— Are established in their careers
— Prioritize health, finances, and mindset
— Invest more upfront
Hard disqualifiers:
— “I’m not looking for a relationship”
— No meaningful effort in health or ….career
We look for women who...
— Are ambitious and ready for something ….serious
— Hold themselves to a high standard
— Invest in themselves
Hard disqualifiers:
— Low-effort applications with little intent
— Provocative “for attention” social media
We only accept those who have done the work and are ready to show up fully
in a committed relationship
THE EVENING
What your evening looks like
A curated flow designed to feel natural, private, and worth dressing up for. Every moment moves you closer to the people you actually want to meet.
01
Arrive
Enter the room to a warm welcome from your host.
02
Meet
Move through intimate one-on-one conversations with people who share your intentions.
03
Reset
A short mid-event break to reset and reflect, and perhaps pour a new glass of wine.
04
Choose
A closing moment to revisit every face in the room and note who stayed with you.
05
Connect
Within 24 hours of the event, discover who felt the same way.
You privately choose who you’d like to hear from — and exactly what contact info you’re comfortable sharing.
Curated virtual events for accomplished singles
Meet up to 12, relationship-minded
singles in one night
For ambitious singles who are done with dating apps
and want an intentional, curated experience
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Every guest screened and vetted prior to the event
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Applications are reviewed in order. If your first-choice night is full, we’ll add you to the priority waitlist
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Once accepted, you’ll be the first to know when spots open in your city with the opportunity to reserve your place
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Currently in NY and expanding soon
UPCOMING
Pick your city and night, and apply for an invite. If a night is full, you’ll be
added to the waitlist and considered for other events
Upcoming events